Keep Going!

By charline - Tuesday, July 15, 2014



Always go for the long haul...

“When you really work hard for something, you will get it, or perhaps something better.” 

Remembering what my big bro would always tell me is something that would keep me going whenever I just feel too tired and weary from everything. And he is right, nothing worth having comes easy. Whether it is your dream, love, or even the petty things that you’ve always wanted and you cannot seem to have, you cannot just sit all day, pray and look into wilderness of the sky to get something you have always dreamed about.

But let’s face it, the road is never going to be that easy. There will come to a point where you have to face not one, not two but a lot of divergent roads and you have to choose which way to go. Lots of times, I would end up confused, muddleheaded and in complete disarray. Yet, in my mind, I know what I have always wanted to do and to achieve. So even if I am going out of the mainstream, even if I am not following the crowd, I know my heart will lead me to that place where I should go. In life, we cannot just follow where everyone goes. We always do not have to fit in. What is important above all is that you love what you do, you are happy with it, you contribute something to society and you have personal growth.

The same thing goes for relationships with people- Relationship with friends, lovers and family. No matter how things get rough and rocky. Even if you will have to deal with conflicts, a series of debates, misunderstandings and fights, you cannot give up on them. At least on the romantic side, I’m benefitted of the fact that I am a woman. Women can only go as far as the men can go. If they give up then what can women do?

On a whim, at least it is much easier to find a solution for the petty things that you have always wanted. Either you choose to finally let it go or do something to get it. The choices are pretty easy.  But if it has something to do with what you will do all your life or even the person you will be committing to for a lifetime, it almost the same. You have to make a choice and stand by it.

My choice now is that I will not give up and I will not be shaken.

Just when you thought of giving up..
Dreams- I know I am getting there. I can have it, maybe not at all at the same time but I will have it.

I hope I can find one. :)
Love- I am still not giving up on you. So please don’t give up on me too. J If I come too late, chances are I am in need of saving lol.

Petty things- A chocolate ice cream and pizza will do. Haha

My choices can either be right or wrong, but today is definitely not the day to identify which one is either of the two. Luckily, I live for the present. The future has too many worries and you cannot allow the past to haunt you. Just keep fighting. Keep going! Aja!

It's stormy outside just now. But still, don't forget that just because it is rainy,
it does not mean you are not heading for sunshine.


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2 comments

  1. A great reminder! :)

    "The future has too many worries and you cannot allow the past to haunt you. "

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