Before I always say, "expect the unexpected". but now id rather say, "don't expect at all". It's so hard especially if you are expecting too much on things, on people and even on fate that you end up being hurt and wounded the most. Now I'm getting a clearer picture as to why some people are just the happy-go-lucky-just-go-with-the-flow type.I considered them naive before, because they dont take things too seriously.
Now, I'm seeing them in a different light. Though I'm not also definitive in saying that we should not be serious at all. What I have just realized is that maybe, they are like that because they want to protect themselves. They want to safeguard their minds and especially their emotions that will surely suffer if things comes to worst.
And I guess this is what applies to my current situation right now. No expectations. I just do what I have to do. At least when you're not expecting, if at the end you didnt get what you want, you have saved yourself or to be specific your pride. Once in a while you have to save your pride too coz its also bad if u cant even save even ur face from any mess you could possibly be situated in.
Just like what my economics professor in economics would say.."You only have two choices its either you are risk averse in investing , you risk in able to gain. " And i say.I cant believe finance economics can be directly applied to real life.
So from now on, I wont expect anything.. Hopes and expectations are different, in my own opinion.I admit I risk everything before without thinking a millions times first, so now I think ill be a risk averse one.hehehe
